"Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the daytime, and falling in at night. I miss you like hell." -- Edna St. Vincent Millay Everyone fears loneliness. I was afraid of being alone and when you made your entrance I thought I saw the sun. I felt your approach and shifted my world to let you in. I made a space for you and allowed you to change me. I carved a place for you in my soul, and now that you're gone I feel hollow. I chose to trust(love??) you(or was it the idea of you?) but trust can lead to hurt. There's a hole(chasm) in front of me, and I don't know how to avoid it. Wounds and hollows heal, but that takes time. I don't know how much longer I can wait. I miss you. I want to let everything go and be who I used to be. But I can't. I guess that's the point. When you let someone close enough to change you, to can't just go back to how you used to be. So I think I...
“Wandering is the activity of the child, the passion of the genius; it is the discovery of the self, the discovery of the outside world, and the learning of how the self is both 'at one with' and 'separate from' the outside world. These discoveries are as fundamental to the soul as 'learning to survive' is fundamental to the body. These discoveries are essential to realizing what it means to be human. To wander is to be alive. " --Roman Payne, The Love of Europa The word 'wander' originates from Old English wandrian (“to wander, roam, hover; change; stray, err”). This combination of six letters possesses a number of different meanings and potential uses, each as beautiful and valuable as the others. Wandering is what makes us human. Though we claim to seek still, static peace, this will leave our souls restless. I have no choice. When I do not wander, I cannot change. Change, and the uncomfortable risk that accompanies it, is a necessary condi...